So you’re having a baby.. You’re probably a full mix of emotions.. You’re tired. You don’t feel well. Your body is changing. You’re nervous about the unknown. Maybe even a little scared and wondering if this was the right choice…. BUT God forbid you verbalize that to anyone… Sure, you have that one best friend or maybe even sibling that you can voice it to in a judgment free zone, but outside of that?  The responses that you will most likely get would be similar to the ones I received: “What do you mean?  Do you not want this baby? Are you regretting getting pregnant? That’s not a good sign because the baby’s not even here yet!”  Right….. Well listen, here’s the thing.  It’s about time that we chicks rally together and cut the crap.  Let’s be real… We need to stop worrying about how what we say and how we think will be perceived by others.  This whole journey is hard enough without that added layer of pressure, opinion or outside judgment; let alone the additional stress we put on ourselves.